Husnuzon.

Husnuzon. In malay we call it bersangka baik. It means having good impressions to someone or something. Think of all possible good things that you could think of related to that someone or a situation. For example, I'd give you the most common thing happens everyday. Someone did not give a signal light at a junction. That's probably one of the most annoying thing happens to you while driving right? So in that case, we can apply husnuzon. Maybe, the car's signal light is broken. Maybe he forgot and said sorry after that although we couldnt hear it. Maybe he's just got his new license and got nervous. Anddd the list goes on. Don't get ticked off. You'd be pretty upset after that and it's not a good feeling while driving.

So, I watched Al-Kulliyah and the main topic was about it. It was a good one like it has always been and the guest was Ustaz Pahrol. Chief editor of Solusi. First he talked about how we should always have good impressions toward Allah because He is ar-Rahim. The Most Merciful. His love for us is greater than the love of a mother for her child. An infant! Just imagina that. That's amazing, right? Yet, we always turn our backs to Him. There is also a hadith when we come to Allah walking, Allah comes to us running. How beautiful that is? Whenever we want to repent, don't hesitate. Allah will always accept sincere repentance. He's waiting for you.

Next the Ustadz told about good impressions toward our spouse. That what makes marriage lasts. InsyaAllah. Trust is greater than love itself. Ustadz said, after some time, we could get lose a little interests in our spouse so we have to find something to appreciate him or her. That'll make love grows. I think I kinda add a little something to it but it's quite the same.

I have listened to MANY advices about marriage. How should I, as a  future wife to someone, execute my duties to be a good one for my husband. I hope, when it's time, InsyaAllah, I'll be able to.

Like Aiman Azlan said, to pursue in this particular path is no 'walk in the park'. I have to be prepared, mentally, phisically, emotionally and most important, SPIRITUALLY.

Okay, I'm talking like I'm the one who is going to get married soon. LOL. Oh well, what the heck. I love talking about it. I love the whole idea of marriage. A beautiful relationship that is blessed by Allah and one of the greatest sunnah of Rasulullah s.a.w.

Peace out. May Allah bless you. :)