Haaaa, Bahasa Melayu pulak. Macam takde mood nak tulis dalam English. *sigh I should, right?
OK. I watched Semanis Kurma today. It was entitled "Rezeki di Hujung Umur". Meaning you're pregnant at an old age. Mostly in the 40's. They invited three special person. Fisrtly Dr Halina who is a Gynaecologist (pakar sakit puan), and then there was Puan Roslinda and Puan Maizatul who were both pregnant in their 40's.
I'll just say what came first into my mind. Here it goes!
One lady called, she said she wanted to make a family plan. She asked whether is it okay to not WANT to have a child anymore?? Is it haram? I really pitied her. I think she cried while she was on the phone. Dr Halina said that it is not. She has every right to do so. Doctors should help her to make it happen. Then Ustazah Nurbayah added that even though she doesn't want it but it is not her own decision. She should ask her husband first. If her husband said okay then she can. If it's otherwise, she still has to obey him. Remember, syurga di bawah tapak kaki suami. (Malas nak translate because it doesn't sound that good in English. In my opinionlah.)
My own opinion: Don't judge her. Even though she doesn't want any child anymore that doesn't mean she hates children. Maybe she has problems and only Allah knows.
Another case:
Another lady called. She's been married with her husband for 9 years now and at the same time, she had miscarriages for 8 times. Yes, you read that right. EIGHT times! I was amazed. MasyaAllah how tough she was and is to have had events/situations like that. It maybe seems unfortunate but I am sure Allah has something for her. I respect her patience. She asked for tips to have a baby of her own.
This is what I only got to list down.
Read:
Surah Al-Fatihah.
Surah Mariam
Surah al-Luqman untuk kecerdikan
Surah Yusuf untuk kecantikan akhlak dan rupa
Surah Yasiin untuk kekuatan jati diri
The first two surahs, I couldn't catch what were it for. Sorry.
Also read:
Surah al-Kahfi:39 Mohon zuriat, kuatkan kandungan agar tak gugur, harta yang berkat dan jodoh yang baik.
Surah al-Anbiya:89 & ali-Imran:38 Untuk zuriat yang soleh/solehah
Okay. Now for the two guests that came.
Firstly is Puan Maizatul. When she had her 5th child, she was at the age of 39. After 9 months, she found out that she was pregnant again and she was feeling very very excited for it. Then after telling her husband and friends about the amazing news, suddenly she got scared. She got scared of what might happened to her baby. She had thyroid before and she had her miscarriage at that time. She scared it might occurred to her again. Nevertheless, she managed to gave birth to her 6th child just about a few months ago if I'm not mistaken. She said we should strive for whatever bound to happen and to be strong.
Okay, I save the best for the last. This one is my favourite and it relates to the title up there. Puan Roslinda.
*Betulke Puan Roslinda? Ke nama lain? //scrolling up Perh, nagntuk bebenor dah ni*
Her first child was a down syndrome child. At first she couldn't really accept the fact that she had given birth to a special child and then after years of taking care of the child, she said that child is the one that taught her to be a composed person and potent. Yes, it takes one to have one. Allah gives her a special child because she, herself IS SPECIAL. Puan Roslinda also said that her first child didn't make her to give up for having another child. Instead, she tried harder to give birth to another normal child. Alhamdulillah, after 5 years, her prayer was fulfilled.
Huhhhhhh, done! Alhamdulillah! Sorry if I was mumbling to much. I warned you I can't write a good piece.
Btw, maybe some people would say, why should I know this now? This isn't important. Wait a sec! Chop dulu! When knowledge comes, you have to grasp it wherever and whenever. There is no such thing as "the right time" to attain knowledge. IT IS NEVER TOO EARLY TO PREPARE.
Sorry kalau ada silap dan salah.
Assalamualaykum. May Allah blesses you.
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